Be real
Use your actual identity, age, and photos. One account per person. Verification keeps the room human.
Community guidelines
How to be good here.
Flemo is for verified adults meeting through communities and local events. Our community guidelines are open to all preview users upon signup, ensuring everyone aligns on trust and safe interactions before matching.
The short version
Four rules carry most of it.
Be respectful
No harassment, hate, pressure, spam, or unsolicited sexual content. Boundaries are the baseline.
Show up safely
Meet in public, arrange your own ride, tell a friend, and leave anytime something feels off.
Report fast
Block, report, and send details early. If there is immediate danger, call local emergency services first.
What gets removed
Anything that makes the room unsafe.
Fake or misleading profiles
Impersonation, fake age, stolen photos, duplicate accounts, or attempts to bypass verification.
Harassment or pressure
Threats, discrimination, repeated unwanted contact, sexual pressure, or ignoring a no.
Scams and solicitation
Money requests, phishing, commercial spam, suspicious links, or using Flemo as a sales channel.
Unsafe event behavior
Misleading event details, disrespecting venues, posting private information, or creating unsafe meetup situations.
Safety note
If something feels wrong, act early.
Use Flemo's block and report tools, save screenshots when you can, and include a Flemo ID or event name in your report. In immediate danger, call emergency services first.